I don't *want* to have my behaviour, my time with my friends, compromised because of the unconscionable actions of someone else. But at the moment, it may happen. I'm really sorry about it, but it doesn't seem like it's anything I can particularly control. I promise I'll work on it.
While we're here. I keep finding more and more things I want to say to the man in question. I'm considering writing him a letter, which he may, of course, decide not to read. I do feel as though I ought to try to justify my handling of the situation, but more that I want to explain where he went wrong and why, so there's no chance he can do the same again with anyone else. Is this a bad idea? (Not that I'll get any advice, as it's the weekend, but still. ~s~)