Much thanks to lilithmagna, ergotia, ciphergoth (all fabulous company and blessedly understanding about how gutted I was), cujosmurf, conflux, thekumquat (all extremely sweet and friendly), lolliepopp (leaving me in hysterics as well as being wonderful), djm4 (making me feel entirely happy about being where I was, and things) and finally spikeylady who rocks harder than I can describe and was just so damn great to me.
Now I face the question - no, I really do - of whether the Camden Virgin is open on Sundays, whether thus Scott will be there, and whether I should go out and try to find him.
Ye gods I'm tired. I really do wish he'd been there. But people were lovely.